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Q: I'm kind of dreading Christmas this year. We're basically obligated to hang out with extended family whose opinions on a number of issues clash with ours. Can you give us any advice for at least trying to keep things civil?

Jim: As the old saying goes, "You can choose your friends ... but not your family." We often discover how true that is ...Read more

Q: I know that this time of year is supposed to be the "feel good" season. But in our house it just seems like wall-to-wall stress for a whole month. How can we change that pattern?

Jim: I think many of us can relate -- the days between Thanksgiving and Christmas are some of the busiest of the year. As the decorations go up, so does the pace. ...Read more

Q: We want to help our kids learn how to handle money in practical ways. Do you have any suggestions?

Jim: I think many parents overlook a key financial application: paying for extracurricular activities. We all know these things can take a big bite out of the family budget. But we're usually happy to make that sacrifice because we know the ...Read more

Q: I struggle every year when Thanksgiving approaches. I know I should be more grateful than I am; I just don't know how to get a better handle on it. Help?

Jim: Let's be honest -- we can all use more gratitude. The good news is that the answer is pretty straightforward. We just have to choose to be grateful.

That's what Drs. Les and Leslie ...Read more

Q: With a recent change in my job, I'm finally going to be able to spend more time with my family. My kids aren't used to having Dad home much. How can I build and keep up relational momentum with them?

Jim: One of most helpful building blocks to reinforce a strong relationship with our children involves discovering new interests and activities...Read more